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After reading the opening pages of Gabor Maté’s When the Body Says No, I could not help but translate his metaphor into the living pathology of Afghanistan itself. The nation, once nourished by its own diversity of spirit, now suffers from a profound autoimmune disorder, its body turning violently against its own cells. Saadi Shirazi, with his timeless clairvoyance, once wrote:

“Human beings are limbs of one body,

Created from the same essence.

If one limb is afflicted with pain,

The others cannot remain at ease.”

But centuries later, that wisdom has become a diagnosis rather than a proverb. The men in power, swollen with self-righteous inflammation, have mistaken the women of their land for foreign invaders. They strike with decrees instead of antibodies, targeting classrooms, dreams, and the very idea of thought. What they call governance resembles nothing more than the immune system gone rogue, attacking its own tissue until paralysis sets in.

Education, once the lifeblood of progress, has become the site of infection. Half the nation’s brain, its women, has been chemically suppressed, sedated by superstition and sanctified oppression. The body politic convulses, mistaking disease for discipline, decay for devotion. They do not see that by disabling the feminine intelligence, they are amputating their own future, starving the organ that once nurtured them.

This is not piety; it is pathology. A fever disguised as faith. The Afghan male authority has become the immune system of ignorance, hyperactive, hypersensitive, attacking its own flesh with divine conviction. And yet, like every autoimmune illness, this self-destruction masquerades as protection. They believe they are defending purity, when in truth they are disfiguring the very body that sustains them.

Eventually, the disease consumes even its host. The hand that silences the girl also trembles when it tries to write. The mouth that forbids her speech forgets how to pray. The nation, caught in a state of spiritual sepsis, will not heal until it learns the simplest truth Saadi left behind: that no limb survives by devouring its own.

Until then, Afghanistan remains a tragic anatomy, half alive, half in denial, its soul gnawing on itself in the name of God….

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They call her a global icon, a beacon of hope, a miracle child who rose from the ashes of violence. The girl who “defied the Taliban” now sits on talk shows sipping tea with celebrities who can’t pronounce the name of her hometown. Meanwhile, millions of girls in Afghanistan wake up every morning to the same nightmare she once escaped, but the cameras have already packed up and gone home.

Malala became the brand, the face, the digestible headline. The West loves a single story, especially when it fits neatly into a TED Talk or a documentary narrated by someone with a comforting accent. They handed her the mic, and she quickly learned how to speak their language, hope, peace, empowerment, words that sound noble but sell even better. She’s not Afghan, not Pakistani, not Western, she’s something more profitable, she’s universal. The perfect poster child for a world that wants to feel good about feeling bad.

Every panel needs a survivor, every gala needs a hero, and every award ceremony needs a girl who smiles through her scars. She learned to milk the sacred cow of trauma, not because she’s greedy, but because the system taught her it’s the only way to be heard. She’s the diplomat of tragedy, the influencer of resilience. The irony is that while her story once symbolized courage, it’s now the soundtrack of a moral marketplace, trauma with a logo, hope with a sponsor.

But somewhere, in the dusty classrooms that never opened, the real revolution remains unfunded. The girls with dirt on their feet and fire in their eyes don’t trend. Their courage doesn’t translate into hashtags. They don’t have PR teams or press releases. They’re the invisible majority, still whispering in classrooms that don’t exist, learning from shadows, teaching from memory. No one makes documentaries about them because their stories aren’t convenient. They don’t offer good lighting or the promise of redemption. They are too real for the world’s appetite for curated grief.

So yes, applaud her. Let the audience cry on cue. Let the world feel redeemed through her story. Because nothing says “progress” quite like one girl with a Nobel Prize while millions of others fade quietly into the dark. The illusion is soothing, one success story to drown a thousand silent failures.

And of course, the saviours line up too, clipboards in hand, their smiles polished for impact reports. They host luncheons in glass towers to discuss “the girl problem,” while sipping fair-trade coffee harvested by girls who never went to school. They call it awareness, they call it advocacy, but really, it’s just business in moral disguise. Every donation buys another guilt-free night of sleep, and every campaign gives us another reason to believe the world is changing. And as long as one girl stands on stage saying thank you, the rest can remain unseen, unheard, and uncounted.

After seeing Malala back on social media, I felt a sense of discomfort without even listening to or watching her. It’s not the words, it’s the choreography, the perfectly timed humility, the effortless empathy that smells faintly of public relations. I couldn’t help but question how she manages to stay relevant in this increasingly social media-driven society, bravo indeed. She’s mastered the art of righteous relatability, not too serious, not too rebellious, just enough to trend without offending the donors.

Out of curiosity, I glanced at the podcast’s comment section. A digital shrine of gratitude awaited me. Every soul was thanking the host for “bringing her on,” for “introducing her story,” as if she were some newly discovered species of inspiration. Nobody questioned, nobody reflected, nobody even blinked. The audience performed its ritual of admiration with the precision of a standing ovation rehearsed for years. In that endless scroll of emojis and exclamation marks, not a single thought dared to wander.

And maybe that’s the real tragedy, not the bullet, not the exile, but the way the world packaged one girl’s pain into a franchise of virtue. Because when suffering becomes a brand, truth becomes optional, and empathy becomes entertainment.

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